Q: My baby cries a lot and is instantly soothed when I pick her up. My extended family says I’m spoiling her. Am I doing the wrong thing by picking her up?
A: Great question! The most important thing for you to know as a parent is there is NO …
READ MOREQ: When I grew up spanking was a common form of discipline but it is taboo now. Are spankings bad for kids?
A. Great question! There is a lot of discussion available online around spanking vs. non-spanking; the goal here is to consider a different perspective. What changes when you …
READ MOREQ: My 11-year old son was being tormented by a couple of girls for half the school year and I didn’t know until the Dean call me. I’m concerned he let it go this long and I didn’t know anything about it, what should I do?
A. Great question! It’s …
READ MOREQ: I am a new parent and want to raise my children without gender specific roles — how do I do that in a world of Barbies and Legos?
A. Great question! Remember nothing has any meaning until you give it meaning. If you give a boy Barbies and a …
READ MOREQ. We typically spend Christmas Eve with my parents but our relationship has become very strained, so this year I suggested to my kids we create new traditions. Since they don’t know how tough it’s been with my parents they want to go to their grandparents. Do I stay true …
READ MOREWe tend to parent based on our behavioral style, and not our child’s. But just like you don’t feed a cat and dog the same food even though they are both animals, children have different emotional requirements and need different approaches to parenting.…
READ MOREQ: My elementary school children want to play videos games the minute they come home from school. I don’t think it’s healthy but believe they deserve a fun activity of their choice after sitting in class all day; do you have suggestions?
A. Great question! It’s easy for people to …
READ MOREDo you feel like you are parenting all wrong? You might be. Often we parent based on our behavioral style not our child’s. Listen in to learn more.…
READ MOREQ: Since our children were young, we have traveled to see family for the holidays. Now they are getting older and have started to mention they want to stay home Christmas Day; what should I do?
A. Great question! The real question is what do YOU want to do? Some …
READ MOREQ. I recently had a new baby and our 4-year old daughter is acting out. Sometimes I’m afraid she is going to hurt the baby. What should I do?
A. Great question! Remember, this is a big transition for your daughter. She has been the main focus of your attention …
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