Q. I’m working for a start-up and I feel guilty when I’m not working at night and on weekends because I know there is so much to do. I’m starting to feel burnout; how do take time for myself and not feel guilty?
A. Great question! Guilt is the burden …
READ MOREQ: My 11-year old son was being tormented by a couple of girls for half the school year and I didn’t know until the Dean call me. I’m concerned he let it go this long and I didn’t know anything about it, what should I do?
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READ MOREQ: I am a new parent and want to raise my children without gender specific roles — how do I do that in a world of Barbies and Legos?
A. Great question! Remember nothing has any meaning until you give it meaning. If you give a boy Barbies and a …
READ MOREFrequently we stuff our feelings and blame someone else for making us feel hurt, for example. A healthier approach is to own your truth and say “You hurt my feelings”, and then allow yourself to move on. You get to choose how you feel.…
READ MOREQ. We typically spend Christmas Eve with my parents but our relationship has become very strained, so this year I suggested to my kids we create new traditions. Since they don’t know how tough it’s been with my parents they want to go to their grandparents. Do I stay true …
READ MOREWe tend to parent based on our behavioral style, and not our child’s. But just like you don’t feed a cat and dog the same food even though they are both animals, children have different emotional requirements and need different approaches to parenting.…
READ MOREQ. Much of my work involves meeting with people inside and outside my company, which I enjoy but often that time is not productive for me. I have a hard time saying no because I see it as part of my job which means I am doing the rest of …
READ MOREQ: My elementary school children want to play videos games the minute they come home from school. I don’t think it’s healthy but believe they deserve a fun activity of their choice after sitting in class all day; do you have suggestions?
A. Great question! It’s easy for people to …
READ MOREMany people go through the week getting things “done” and don’t feel closer to achieving their goal(s). The LMT Consulting “My Weekly Plan” has you start your week thinking about the result you want first and then filling in your goals accordingly. Although there is no plan that guarantees success, finding one that works for you will help you reach your results faster.
Directions: Think about the result you want to achieve for the week. Since we know where there …
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